4) Neighbours
Having moved into a home we bought at the end of December 2019, we had to once again settle into a neighbourhood. We have been so fortunate to have the wonderful Derry family in the adjacent semi-detached house. Their youngest, Gabriel, and my son have become best friends and having each other to play with during the pandemic has been one of the most special blessings, and a beautiful thing to observe. They have become brothers to one another, and I have enjoyed the periodic end-of-day beers with David, his father.
5) Canada
“Peace, order and good government” are the central tenants of this country’s constitution. This was plainly evident during the pandemic, and I salute the men and women who have been trying to deal with a difficult situation, in particular our government. Under Prime Minister Trudeau, the government has responded admirably to the pandemic and reassured Canadians that they can depend on the government to see them through this crisis. For one, I am grateful for the safety net provided by unemployment insurance and the Canada Recovery Benefit (thanks to legislation that passed with the support of all political parties).
6) Proximity to Family
One of the reasons we moved from South Africa to Canada was to be closer to family. With my brother in Toronto and my mother in Ottawa, we have been lucky to enjoy lots of great meals together and quality time having out in both cities. I am so happy that I was able to be there for my mum when she most needed it and how we all came together to celebrate my father at his memorial in early November. It has been especially touching to observe the blossoming relationship between my wife and sister-in-law since they have been in the same city together.
7) Local Parks
We live close to High Park, one of Toronto’s great parks. Extending over 161 ha (400 acres), it is the city’s second largest municipal park and features wonderful paths for hiking and running, areas for dogs to run off-leash, playgrounds for children, ponds for fishing, and even a small zoo. The park was donated to the city in 1873 “for the free use, benefit and enjoyment of the citizens of Toronto for ever” and it remains the best place to witness cherry blossoms in the spring (access to which was limited during the COVID-19 pandemic). As often as possible I enjoy the park as an urban oasis to breathe in fresh air and commune with nature.
8) Optimum Talent
Having completed a one-year contract with the Mastercard Foundation at the end of March, my employer kindly provided access to the services of Optimum Talent, a talent management firm, to help transition to my next role. Apart from one-on-one consultations with a career counsellor, Lindsey Estenfelder, I was offered the opportunity to participate in a weekly networking group, headed by Debra Adey. These virtual meetings with others seeking employment provided tremendous support, learning, and connection when I felt quite isolated.
9) The Lewis Family
Jeff and Lauren lived on our street up until the middle of 2020, when they bought a house and moved to Hamilton. As a couple — and as journalists — they had lived and worked in Alberta prior to moving to Toronto. Their eldest Bennett, my son Ben, and our neighbour’s boy Gabriel were as thick as thieves and regularly ‘terrorized’ the neighbourhood as a three-person gang on scooters. Jeff and Lauren have become friends and we’ve gotten together with them a few times since they relocated, including a couple of wonderful times at their cottage.
10) Nic and Ann
Nic is an old friend and he and his wife Ann were instrumental in helping us settle in Toronto at the end of 2018. Their boy Theo, who is a few years younger than Ben, is an absolute delight. One-on-one time with Nic, cycling, and exploring some of the city’s ravines have been some highlights for me.
11) My Son’s Teachers
Ms K at King George Primary School and Mrs Tavares at St. Cecelia’s have been absolute stars in educating Ben and helping him feel settled. Consummate professionals and with warm, caring hearts, they have been vital to his adaptation to a new country and culture. Amid all the disruption and uncertainty of the pandemic, both of these women have been rock solid and reliable in their determination to make the school year work, with or without long-distance learning.
12) LinkedIn
An online social platform that is so much more than a job-hunting tool, I have become an avid user of LinkedIn. Apart from being a valuable outlet to provide my views on different work-related matters, I’ve also been able to learn from my connections and the various courses provided through LinkedIn learning. I look forward to seeing how the platform evolves in the coming years as a more integrated aspect of the Microsoft empire.
13) St. Paul’s Church
On November 7th we produced a memorial to my father — Dr. Sholto Fletcher Cole —who passed away rather suddenly about a month away from his 89th birthday. While it had a small in-person service at the church, the service was ostensibly put together to cater to an online audience (thanks to COVID-19 restrictions). Led by Minister Wilson and technically produced by Ed Smith from St Paul’s, we pulled it off without a major hitch. The service included kind words from Minister Jack Archibald (the recently retired from St. Paul’s), playing of the organ by Matthew Larkin and eulogies by my brother Doug (in Ottawa) and from Jack Richardson, a longtime friend of my father’s who is based in Boston. Beyond the ceremony, the broader congregation at the church — where my parents have been active members — were unbelievably supportive, especially my mum and dad’s bible study group of multiple decades.
14) Creekside Community
My parents have been in Creekside, a small neighbourhood near Bayshore Shopping Centre for over two decades. It is a special place with a caring group of neighbours and friends. When my father passed, I was touched by the kindness and care that was offered and how many of individuals from the neighbourhood popped in to pay their condolences. It is heartening to know that my mother is part of this community and that it will provide her with companionship during times when she may feel alone.
15) Podcasters
I have been a big fan of podcasts and over the past year I have come to appreciate the format even more. The shows I listen to regularly include Radiolab, Tim Ferriss, TED Radio Hour, Stuff You Should Know, Freakonomics, and Hidden Brain. This year I also ‘discovered’ Zig Zag, part of the TED network of shows. In one way or another, each of these podcasts provided comfort, support, and insight to help get through a difficult year.
16) Wildlife
We are lucky to live in a neighbourhood with a fair number of mature trees, including a few standing tall over our backyard. These ‘grandfathers of nature’ provide a home and refuge for many animals including red-tailed hawks, blue jays, cardinals, sparrows, chickadees, and various other birds. We’ve even spotted coyote, red fox and an opossum (North America’s only marsupial). Racoons and squirrels are also plentiful in our area, providing regular entertainment with their antics and bravado. Apart from observing their beautiful busyness, these animals served as reminders of the importance of nature and our dependency upon all that it provides our species.